I finally got a chance to take a pic of the article that launched my week into chaotic madness (of the good variety)
It was on the front page of the Better Living section. How apropos.
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Where is the Muchness? Part 2
Color splash is at my house!!!!!
Conversation while driving kiddos to school: Big one: mom, you know money is just paper, you can’t rely on it for anything. And then you die and you can’t do anything with it anyway. Mom: that’s why you have a will. To tell people what to do with your money. Lil one: what if you’re poor and have no money? Mom: you still have a will in case you have kids so you can say who should take care of them if they’re not old enough to take care of themselves. Lil one: like if you have a kid when you’re 90? Big one: you can only have a kid till you’re 50. Lil one: so mommy has 10 more years to have another baby. Big one: but mommys not gonna have another baby because she’s not praying to god to give her one and also she’s happy with the kids she already has. Mom: you learned you have babies when you pray to god to give you one? Big one: yeah, that’s how my teacher (who recently gave birth) got one. She prayed for it. Mom: ya know there’s more to it than praying, right? There’s like, science and stuff…. I’ll get you a book. …. On its surface, I get this— I do send them to a religious school…. but I can’t help but think of the whole “my baby would’ve lived if I’d just prayed harder” nonsense that permeates the babyloss communities. The complicated pregnancies that resulted in healthy survivors and the subtle but unintended arrogance of mothers crediting their prayers for their luck, directly shaming those with worse luck who believed in prayer with just as much blind faith but still lost. #postlosslife – amazing how many things hearken back to the lessons learned. Any book suggestions or should I just do what my mom did and leave a copy of “Our Bodies, Ourselves” in plain site at all times? I think I turned out relatively healthy on that education.
Tova’s Muchness Challenge – Day 23 – Just chillin’
Something I’ve Never Said Before….
This is True Genius, Applied. Sometime really soon, the Average Erudite (Hip!) American, you know, the one that knows his or her Carbon Footprint, the one that wants Justice for Darfur, the one that wants are President to Get off his Ass & Fucking do Something for Fuck’s sake, Is gonna know about TTTS. How bad it is. A little teensy-weensy bit of what we endure. How did these Average People learn about it? It wasn’t Jerry Lewis. It will be Because you brought it to them. Through this enterprise of yours that has turned out to have positively Jovian powers against despair. Such genius is quite rare. I am honored & privileged to witness it in you, so skillfully applied.
Thank you, Tova.
Michael..
Michael, sometimes its hard to know at the beginning of your comments where they will end up, and I like this one a lot. Thank You! 🙂
Yay!
What is muchness? Best line ever! Incredibly proud of you!
Thanks Tiff- I love you!
You need to frame these pages. The frames must be covered in sparkles though! Congrats on spreading Muchness to the world.